Our dear friend was kind enough to agree to do our family photos recently. Not only did she have to bring her two children with her, she also had to put up with us and our very large dog who both her children are afraid of. It was very generous of her. Unfortunately, it was very last minute and we had a very typical "family pictures day". Meaning, I spent the whole day dragging Shad around from store to store to try to find something for him to wear, therefore making him eat late, miss his nap and be very sick of holding still by the time we actually showed up with an entire garbage sack of clothes to meet my friend a half hour late because we still didn't know what we were wearing. (We decided to do them late Saturday night for the following Monday . . . big mistake.) Dan was stressed that I was late and still didn't have anything planned and needless to say no one except Solo was very excited when we showed up. The fact he was certainly didn't help anything. (I had hoped to take him for a walk so he would be calmer being outside for the pictures, of course, that didn't happen). It also didn't make it any easier for her after an overcast morning when the sun suddenly broke out in full force in the middle of the afternoon, making her lighting situation near impossible. Fortunately, my friend was awesome about dealing with us and tried so very hard, but Shad WOULD NOT stay still without screaming. I felt a little bit better about it later when Jess admitted that her and her other friend were both redoing family pictures because they had the same problem. Guess it isn't just us that couldn't get two ornery adults, a tired one and a half year old and an overstimulated dog to look good. Despite all that she did a great job and managed to even make us look like the happy family we usually are. To be fair, check our her site to see her awesome work when she isn't dealing with the perfect storm to make her job impossible.
Jess was just using Solo as a model to adjust settings, but I am sure a few years from now, when Solo has moved on to "the farm", this picture is going to make me bawl my eyes out.
Why it was so difficult working with the two of them; Solo barked so of course Shad had to tell him "no," finger-point and all.

I loved that this was actually not posed, Shad came over while Jessie was using me to adjust lighting and just gave me a hug while I was sitting there before running off. Luckily, Jess thought to actually take a picture, she captured a side of his personality I LOVE right here. 
Yeah, he is definitely aware of how much of a stud I think he is right here. Knowing us well, our friend thought it would be funny to take one of me just looking at Dan while he looked straight ahead straight-faced. Unfortunately for her, he couldn't help smiling at how totally true to life this situation is.
As long as no one was trying to hold him still or make him quit moving he was happy, of course that makes taking a picture pretty much impossible, but Jessie managed to sneak this one somehow.
We both literally ran over to him for this, obviously not perfectly posed, but he was happily standing there so we tried to make it work.
The biggest benefit of working with a friend (other than stealing the clothes off her back, which absolutely happened), is that she could walk over grab Dan and force him to actually get close and touch me. It also helped get much more natural smiles as she could crack jokes we actually thought were funny as opposed to the lame stuff some people say. A stranger would have had a hard time getting us this close-the staircase shot is definitely more Dan's comfort zone.
Either Dan misunderstood the question or was afraid of my mood and figured a lie was safer when I pulled my hair back without a mirror and asked if it had any strange bumps etc. . . . Clearly, either way I could have used a little help, but I really don't care. This is definitely more true to real life than if it was somehow magically perfect.
As happy as he was doing this. . .
This was the best smile we could get out of him, right side up . . .
Best Buddies
(In Jessie's defense, she had been shooting in the opposite direction and took this candid so clearly the lighting wasn't ideal compared to 180 degrees the other way.)